Making mom friends is intimidating. And hard. And often outside our comfort zone. The effort it takes to strike up a conversation can feel draining. And the fear of rejection is real. We get it!
But we all need friends through this journey of motherhood, so we are here to help with a few encouraging tips and a list of actual local places where moms congregate. If you are looking to make mom friends you are one of MANY and we want to help you find one another!
First, a few encouraging tips.
#1 – Realize many of the other moms you’ll find at these places are in the same boat – looking for community, fellowship, and a chance to connect with another mom and have an adult conversation. You are not alone.
#2 – Try somewhere new. When in doubt, keep it simple. Put yourself in places where other moms might be and just enjoy yourself. If you walk away with a potential new friend, great! If not, at least you got out of the house and made the effort. There can always be a “next time.”
#3 – Be willing to step outside your comfort zone. Smile. Make the first move and introduce yourself. Have some conversations starters in mind…
- Ask about their kids (it’s the one thing we all have in common!)
- Do your kids get along?
- Are you from Lakeland?
- Where else do you go to get out of the house?
- Are you a working mom? (We mean other than the full-time mom job of course)
- Think about what you might want someone to ask you…
Whether you’ve got 3 kids under 5 that are with you all day, or you’re a working mom who only has nights and weekends free, or you’re a mom of older kids who might look strange showing up alone at storytime, we’ve got you covered.
Read on for a list of 10 places to find fellow moms.
Family Fundamentals offers classes on a weekly basis for children from infants through age 5 where parents and children will learn and socialize as they participate in fun, stimulating, developmental activities. These classes are FREE and a great opportunity to meet other moms and caregivers. For babies – age 2, classes are offered 1-2 days a week. For ages 3-5, classes are offered daily at 9:30-11:30am that includes a story and school-readiness activity time in the model preschool classroom. Classes are listed on our calendar.
Beginning March 4, 2019, all classes and parent resources will be on the 3rd floor of Explorations V Children’s Museum in Downtown Lakeland. Family Fundamentals’ relocation to the Children’s Museum is great news for moms. You can enjoy a structured class, socialize with other moms, AND give your kids time to explore the museum before or after class, providing a full morning of activities and HOURS of time to chat with other moms!
The Lakeland Library
The Main Branch of the Lakeland Library on Lake Morton has programs scheduled almost every day. Mother Goose Baby Time starts at just 6 months old, and the programs run all the way through teenagers. Even though moms of older kids might write off this option, DON’T! If you’ve got kids in that “in-between” zone – where you still have to take them and pick them up but they don’t really need your participation, stick around… the programs are usually less than an hour long and other moms are probably doing the same thing.
All of our local libraries offer storytimes and other activities for toddlers during the week. With 16 libraries in Polk County, you can find one near you and do some post-storytime socializing! Click here to see upcoming library events.
Kindermusik Music Connections Classes
Kindermusik programs at Music Connections in Lakeland are a great opportunity to connect with other moms and caregivers for meaningful relationships. Weekly classes at Kindermusik make it easy for you to enjoy music-making with your children from infancy through age 7 while meeting new friends and developing friendships as you journey through classes together.
Whether you are a stay at home mom, a working mom, or a mom looking for a family activity, there is a class schedule for you. Classes are offered on weekday mornings, weekday evenings, and one Saturday per month. Click here to learn more about Kindermusik.
Playgrounds & Indoor Play Areas
We can guarantee you’ll find other moms at the playground! (Unless it is empty of course)
We’ve got an abundance of great local playgrounds where you can relax and watch your kids play while hoping to strike up a conversation with another mom nearby. A few favorites that you probably won’t find empty – Common Ground, the Rotary Playground at Lake Parker Park, and Barnett Park & Sunflower Playground (this one is fully gated making it ideal for 5 & under).
Funtasia at Family Fun Center
If you’re looking for a “cooler” way to meet other moms, head to Funtasia at Family Fun Center. One of the largest soft play areas in the country, Funtasia is active entertainment for all of your little ones ages 12 & under! Your children will explore a 4 story maze of tunnels, tubes, slides, and obstacles. Kids will have a ball interacting with each other and finding their way though all of the fun activities while you enjoy the air conditioning and relax knowing your kids can’t leave the gated play area.
New Mom Support Groups
If you’re a brand new mom or mom to a baby under 12 months, there are a lot of opportunities to meet other moms with babies. (Nevermind the fact that you’re all so exhausted you can hardly carry on a conversation!)
The Nest offers a variety of pregnancy classes (find your mom tribe before you ever give birth!) as well as new mom support at their weekly weigh-in clinics. They also have a postpartum support group and infant massage classes. Check out their calendar for upcoming events.
La Leche League provides support for breastfeeding moms through mother to mother support, encouragement, information, and education. Meetings are held twice per month and both pregnant and breastfeeding moms are welcome along with their babies.
Church & Fellowship Groups
Church and church related activities are a great place to meet other moms AND know that you likely share similar values.
Even if attending worship on Saturday or Sunday doesn’t provide much opportunity for fellowship, many churches offer Bible Studies, small groups, playgroups, and more. Looking for a church home? Ask for suggestions in the Lakeland Moms Group.
The Mom Tribe Bible Study meets at First Presbyterian Church on Tuesday mornings at 9:15am and welcomes new moms to come join the group. Coffee, snacks and FREE childcare are provided. Visit their Facebook Group for more details.
Bible Study Fellowship (BSF) is a free, interdenominational, in-depth Bible study that helps people know God and equips them to serve the Church effectively throughout the world. Meets at Medulla Baptist Thursdays 9:15 AM-10:45 AM. Women of all ages and Children 0-5 are welcome. Visit their Facebook page for more details.
MOPS and MOMSnext have a 40+ year history of bringing moms together, face to face. Whether you are a soon-to-be mom, first-time mom or seventh-time mom, you are welcome at MOPS. Whether you are an adoptive mom, young mom, seasoned mom, foster mom, stepmom or any other type of mom, you are welcome at MOPS. A MOPS meeting typically includes practical teaching through speakers, demonstrations and videos. You’ll get to have honest conversations with other moms who understand the joys and frustrations of motherhood. There is a minimal cost to join a MOPS Group ($50 or less for the year).
Local MOPS Groups:
MOPS Ardella Baptist (Lakeland)
MOPS Evenings in Lakeland
MOPS at First Baptist Church at the Mall (Lakeland)
MOPS at Calvary Baptist Church Winter Haven
MOPS at Church Of The Redeemer Winter Haven
MOPS at Heartland Church Winter Haven
MOPS at First Presbyterian Church Lake Wales
Moms who sweat together stay together, right??
Workout options with child care include the YMCA, Crossfit OCI, Just Move North Lakeland and Just Move South Lakeland, and LA Fitness. With the kids taken care of you can strike up a conversation with another mom and not worry about being interrupted!
Get Involved at School
Perfect for moms of kids ages 5 & up, school is one of the best places to make mom friends. I guarantee your PTO/PTA is always looking for volunteers! Whether you sign up to count box tops or plan the entire spring carnival, you’ll be hanging out with other moms that have kids somewhere in the same age range as yours. Plus as a reader pointed out, it is often a lot of the same parents volunteering and as you see each other on a regular basis friendships will form naturally. Call your school’s front office to inquire.
Service Groups & Business Development Groups
If you’re searching for a way to meet other women without the kids in tow AND make a difference in our community, a service organization might be just what you’re looking for.
The Junior League of Greater Lakeland is an organization of women committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women and improving the community through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. The Junior League is exclusively educational and charitable and hosts multiple events during the year.
The Junior Woman’s Club of Lakeland is a non-profit, volunteer organization serving the greater Lakeland area since 1928. “We provide our members with training and experience in volunteer community service as well as personal friendships.”
Are you a business owner or looking to advance your professional career while networking with other women? Check out ABWA – American Business Women’s Association, Lakeland Downtown Chapter. The members are involved in achieving their career goals through personal and professional development, as well as networking their businesses at monthly events.
Lakeland Moms Group
While it is often easier to meet friends in person, the Lakeland Moms Group on Facebook is another opportunity for you connect with other moms and set up playdates. While we don’t currently plan any events (it is on our wish list!) if anyone is willing to organize and host a playdate, moms night out, or other activity for fellow moms we are happy to set up the Facebook event details within the group and get the details out to Lakeland Moms!
Once you find those mom friends, don’t miss our list of ideas for mom-only activities in our Mom’s Night (or Day) Out – Lakeland Style post, and our Lakeland Coffee Tour where you can find a new place to meet up for great coffee and even better conversation.